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Cakemixr | 2020-11-01 15:35:08 | 1,604,244,908 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jm460n | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jm460n/im_dating_someone_im_not_attracted_to_what_should/ | 2 | So I should preface this by saying I'm a complete novice when it comes to dating for the most part. So please be kind. Recently I (20M) starting dating this girl (19F) I met on tinder and things have been going pretty well for the most part. She has a great personailty, we have similar interests and we really understan... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm dating someone I'm not attracted to. What should I do? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jm460n/im_dating_someone_im_not_attracted_to_what_should/ |
WarioCorkscrew | 2023-06-29 00:48:59 | 1,687,999,739 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14lqh8d | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14lqh8d/what_extracurricular_activities_have_good_gender/ | 1 | I (just-turned-31M) am finally getting into the dating scene after years of putting it off for various reasons, big shout out to Covid. Currently experiencing the hell of dating apps, and I figure that it'd be better to go out in order to supplement the process, see if I can eventually find someone by picking up someth... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What extracurricular activities have good gender balance ratios? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14lqh8d/what_extracurricular_activities_have_good_gender/ |
fetchapailofwater | 2020-12-28 03:38:38 | 1,609,126,718 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | klie8y | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 39 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/klie8y/dating_profiles_with_kid_pictures/ | 8 | My husband created a Bumble account and posted our kids in two of his five pictures. We have recently decided to divorce and had not told friends, family, or kids. I don’t care if he dates but I would have hoped he wouldn’t have done a public platform since our kids don’t even know yet. One of my friends messaged me ‘y... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating profiles with kid pictures? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/klie8y/dating_profiles_with_kid_pictures/ |
StorerPoet | 2022-04-17 04:11:14 | 1,650,168,674 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | u5f26s | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u5f26s/am_i_doing_something_wrong_dating_apps/ | 2 | Lately I've been on a remarkable run of people seeming interested in me from dating apps and then canceling last minute and vanishing. In February it was someone from Bumble who canceled day of three different times, by the third cancellation I gave up. Last month, I attempted to schedule something multiple times with ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I doing something wrong? (Dating apps) | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u5f26s/am_i_doing_something_wrong_dating_apps/ |
Kyletw15 | 2019-01-23 06:08:59 | 1,548,223,739 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | aiwpof | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aiwpof/am_i_going_too_fast/ | 1 | So, I (25m) met this girl (21f) on a dating site not too long ago. I’m pretty sure we’ve only been talking for about a week, a week and half at this point. She is quite awesome. We know a lot about each other already. We talk pretty much every day all day. When I talk to her, I actually feel something. I can’t put my f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I going too fast? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aiwpof/am_i_going_too_fast/ |
BluntyBoy512 | 2023-06-29 14:51:00 | 1,688,050,260 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 14m70bu | true | null | 399 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14m70bu/im_26_year_old_guy_why_is_it_so_hard_to_get_dates/ | 138 | HI there I would love your guys opinions, I'm a 26 year old male I'm queens looking to date, meet women m. I've been on several dating apps with little to no success, with my work schedule it's hard to meet people. I get a few matches but no dates I don't know what im doing wrong. I could use some advice. Thanks for re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm 26 Year Old Guy Why Is It So Hard To Get Dates On Dating Apps | 138 | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14m70bu/im_26_year_old_guy_why_is_it_so_hard_to_get_dates/ |
Dylann_J | 2023-11-19 17:59:57 | 1,700,416,797 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17z2tn5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17z2tn5/how_to_maintain_conv_until_the_date/ | 1 | Hi (M27), my dating experience is really low, for the first time I got a match on Hinge (I sent her a rose (super like)), we already talked a little (without flirting,) and I will see her this Friday (we're going to grab a beer). as is Sunday night here I will ask what she does in her week-end, (the last time speack= F... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how to maintain conv until the date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17z2tn5/how_to_maintain_conv_until_the_date/ |
stevebutabi1 | 2018-12-09 12:01:36 | 1,544,356,896 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | a4ki0l | true | Question | 51 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a4ki0l/how_do_you_date_in_2018/ | 52 | As a 21y/o female in college, this shit is hard. I always wonder "I'm not ugly, but nobody approaches me." Most, if not all, of my generation still expects a man to approach a woman first. But that's such a disconnect from today's equality movement, and I agree. Why do I have to wait for a man to come up to me? Why can... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you "date" in 2018? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a4ki0l/how_do_you_date_in_2018/ |
ACA9991 | 2023-06-26 10:09:57 | 1,687,774,197 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14jd8t8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14jd8t8/issues_with_being_too_fast/ | 1 | Early 30s M - single for 6 months- after the break-up have been out with a couple of different girls, some through dating apps, some through friend's, some random. With all it started as casual, then few dates here and there, and later after couple of dates/months I got told that "it's obvious I'm looking for a serious... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Issues with being too fast | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14jd8t8/issues_with_being_too_fast/ |
electricsemen | 2023-10-19 11:29:27 | 1,697,714,967 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17bgxrp | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17bgxrp/can_you_really_love_again/ | 1 | Kind of a deep question, I guess. But around six months ago I met the man I thought I was going to marry. Everything was perfect to me; same values, long-term goals, common interests, emotional and physical/sexual chemistry, he had all the logistical things like financial stability and a good career. I can honestly say... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can you really love again? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17bgxrp/can_you_really_love_again/ |
Taraa28 | 2023-07-10 19:57:39 | 1,689,019,059 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 14w4g7n | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14w4g7n/should_i_25f_end_things_with_him_30m/ | 1 | I met this man on Hinge in January last week. We were based out of same city but due to some circumstantial stuff we couldn’t meet till April. We were both very invested in talking stage. And were exclusive. My last relationship was abusive. He emotionally and physically abused me. This hinge natch was kind and conside... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (25F) end things with him (30M)? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14w4g7n/should_i_25f_end_things_with_him_30m/ |
missioncity8 | 2019-08-05 00:39:31 | 1,564,965,571 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cm3z6r | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cm3z6r/taking_it_slow_and_relaxing_at_5_months/ | 1 | Hi r/dating, I am a 26m seeing a 33m exclusively for a little over 5 months now. We met online on a gay dating app, and while we were both open to relationships, we weren’t actively seeking one. Well, our first date was 12 hours, no sex and he ended up asking me out again. One date after another we started to develop m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Taking it slow and relaxing at 5 months | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cm3z6r/taking_it_slow_and_relaxing_at_5_months/ |
Aphrodite-Unicorn | 2024-06-04 03:14:20 | 1,717,470,860 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d7nakz | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d7nakz/online_how_many_dates_flaked_out/ | 1 | How many of you have experienced someone flaking out or bailing on you last minute with no warning or reason in online dating? Specially after making plans and confirming them the same day ( dinner, drinks, movies etc ) Is this usual on the online scene ? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online - How many dates flaked out ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d7nakz/online_how_many_dates_flaked_out/ |
GAWDAMN69 | 2019-10-18 06:57:04 | 1,571,381,824 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | djjqaj | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/djjqaj/im_confused/ | 1 | I(26) recently started talking to this girl(23) that I've known for a good while. We came across each other on Facebook dating and one thing led to another and I ended up texting her. Everything was good for a while but I started to notice she would be on social media posting things and leaving my messages on read or j... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm confused | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/djjqaj/im_confused/ |
No_Communication746 | 2024-06-10 15:19:01 | 1,718,032,741 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dco1ws | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dco1ws/just_found_out_the_guy_i_have_been_seeing_since_a/ | 45 | I (26F) met a man (33M) here on a different sub reddit a year ago. I wasn't looking for anything but he kept pursuing me. I eventually gave in after 2 months and we were "officially together". This has been the worst decision of my life. I kept asking him to visit me (we stay continents apart) but he always had some ex... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Just found out the guy I have been seeing since a year is already married | 44 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dco1ws/just_found_out_the_guy_i_have_been_seeing_since_a/ |
addisbad | 2021-01-12 05:14:06 | 1,610,428,446 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | kvl3nl | true | I Need Advice | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kvl3nl/how_do_i_have_the_what_are_you_looking_for_being/ | 2 | So the girl in question and I have been going on walks for about 3 months now, about once a week sometimes twice. We enjoy spending time with each other, or at least she doesn’t mind spending 3-4 hours whenever we meet. I’m not sure what she’s looking for though. We met on tinder and I wanted to get more clarity on wha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I have the - what are you looking for? Being just friends or are you looking for something more conversation? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kvl3nl/how_do_i_have_the_what_are_you_looking_for_being/ |
Guillaume573 | 2021-02-10 19:57:31 | 1,612,987,051 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lh28wq | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lh28wq/girl_cancels_a_date_at_the_last_minute_but_still/ | 1 | Hi all, so this is mostly to vent and ask for second opinions ! So I’ve been talking to this girl for like 3 weeks now, we met through tinder. And last week I finally asked her out. And she said yes. We were supposed to see each other tomorrow afternoon. I was supposed to pick her up at her uni after her classes, and t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl cancels a date at the last minute but still wants to hang ? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lh28wq/girl_cancels_a_date_at_the_last_minute_but_still/ |
ProtoBoss1 | 2015-09-06 21:05:14 | 1,441,573,514 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 3jwakg | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3jwakg/i_26m_am_a_geek_dont_drink_or_party_where_do_i/ | 11 | My night of fun includes a LAN party and reading comics by candlelight. Most people my age met their current SO at bars and parties. That's not me. Where do I, a "geek" even meet someone? Where do introverted girls, girl geeks even hang out? I've tried dating sites but, man, is that a mixed bad. tl;dr - where do you me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [26M] am a geek - don't drink or party - where do I meet someone? | 11 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3jwakg/i_26m_am_a_geek_dont_drink_or_party_where_do_i/ |
SomeGuy69-420 | 2023-10-21 17:56:37 | 1,697,910,997 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 17d8c5r | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17d8c5r/communication/ | 1 | I’ve been single for about 2 years after my last relationship ended from being cheated on. I’ve been on dating sites for about a year and a half. I’ve gone on a few dates that ended with me being ghosted a day later. It seems like now I can’t even get people to respond to me much and if they do it’s for a few days and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Communication | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17d8c5r/communication/ |
potatoOfTruth1 | 2024-08-02 08:03:47 | 1,722,585,827 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ei4hur | true | null | 55 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ei4hur/is_this_age_gap_wrong/ | 1 | So I 18m have been on tinder for a bit. I’ve been talking to a woman who is 28 years old. We seem to have a good connection, is this wrong? I kinda feel odd about it tbh, my family doesn’t know about it and I don’t really want to tell them about it. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this age gap wrong? | 1 | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ei4hur/is_this_age_gap_wrong/ |
_Spen_ | 2020-11-24 22:16:20 | 1,606,256,180 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | k0f3nn | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k0f3nn/whats_the_best_way_to_meet_people/ | 3 | I’m a 19 year old guy, somewhat socially awkward but am good at getting to know people once we get talking. The trouble is I struggle to meet people in the first place and I really don’t have a big social circle to meet people from. Most of my friends and family say dating apps like tinder etc should be avoided as most... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s the best way to meet people? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k0f3nn/whats_the_best_way_to_meet_people/ |
ajacobs1979 | 2019-08-20 19:43:31 | 1,566,330,211 | null | null | 0 | ct4upi | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ct4upi/response_times_to_messages/ | 4 | I've (40M) recently re-joined the OLD world after a few years, and I've noticed women taking MUCH longer to respond nowadays. If I get a response within 48 hours I'm ecstatic, whereas the majority take a week or just don't respond at all. The latter is okay as I have a thick skin and realize not EVERY match will become... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Response Times to Messages | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ct4upi/response_times_to_messages/ |
Coldheartedflake | 2021-08-24 15:30:07 | 1,629,819,007 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | papmfi | true | null | 223 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/papmfi/judging_a_partner_based_on_pets/ | 236 | It’s really disheartening to see profiles on OLD that say shit like “if you have a cat swipe left” or “dog lovers only.” I also had a conversation last night with a guy who once I told him I have a cat stated “I knew it, you seemed too good to be true” I asked him what he meant by that and he said that he’d never met c... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Judging a partner based on pets | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/papmfi/judging_a_partner_based_on_pets/ |
Spacefaring_Stranger | 2024-03-24 17:11:13 | 1,711,300,273 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bmpsxe | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bmpsxe/am_i_going_to_be_okay/ | 3 | I apologise in advance that this is really long and if this is all over the place or doesn't make sense. I'm a 21 year old guy with autism. I won't go into detail unless I need to, but I haven't had a great life and have never really had any emotional support. For most of my life I have felt that I don't need a girlfri... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I going to be okay? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bmpsxe/am_i_going_to_be_okay/ |
shadowx_1189 | 2023-11-12 12:19:56 | 1,699,791,596 | 0 | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 17tj44n | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17tj44n/giving_myself_a_panic_attack_with_tinder/ | 1 | Not sure if this is the most appropriate sub for this but I guess I’ll start with some background. Also, sorry for bad formatting, I’m on mobile. So the first thing to touch on is that the core of this is a Dungeons & Dragons campaign that is DM’d by my best friend. The group consists of myself, his wife, and a few oth... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Giving myself a panic attack with Tinder. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17tj44n/giving_myself_a_panic_attack_with_tinder/ |
Deep_Humor3704 | 2021-09-12 07:05:49 | 1,631,430,349 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | pmo04h | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pmo04h/why_am_i_only_interested_in_men_who_play_hard_to/ | 1 | I don’t develop feelings for someone easily, but when I look back on all of the times I’ve had feelings it’s because a guy has played hard to get. By this I mean not agreeing to everything I say and keeping me guessing what he wants or if he likes me. Most dates I go on are from hinge, so guys are straightforward and i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why am I only interested in men who play hard to get? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pmo04h/why_am_i_only_interested_in_men_who_play_hard_to/ |
imthatspinch | 2024-01-03 03:27:16 | 1,704,252,436 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18x969g | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18x969g/should_i_like_a_guy_on_dating_app_that_rejected/ | 1 | So there’s this guy that I go to grad school with who I was introduced to by a mutual friend of ours. We met at a football game; I sat next to him, and were talking throughout. My friend told me he was pretty shy, but I thought he was cute so I started conversation. He was pretty friendly and chatty and we even laughed... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | should I like a guy on dating app that “rejected” me irl? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18x969g/should_i_like_a_guy_on_dating_app_that_rejected/ |
boysbboys | 2024-03-25 17:27:01 | 1,711,387,621 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bnjele | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bnjele/how_to_tell_if_person_youre_dating_is_transgender/ | 1 | because some are being stealty and not make it known on their profile. Yes,it is your right and you may identify as a certain gender, but not to tell or let it beknown is foul. How does one become cautious | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | how to tell if person youre dating is transgender? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bnjele/how_to_tell_if_person_youre_dating_is_transgender/ |
cs342 | 2023-12-12 11:37:37 | 1,702,381,057 | 0 | null | 0 | 18gjyi8 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18gjyi8/whats_the_best_reponse_when_a_girl_asks_how_many/ | 6 | I'm meeting a girl I matched with on Hinge for drinks this weekend. We ,matched a couple days ago and have great chemistry (at least when texting), and we're both really excited to meet each other for the first time in person. While planning our date, she playfully asked me how many other dates I was going on between t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What's the best reponse when a girl asks how many other dates I have planned with other girls? | 6 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18gjyi8/whats_the_best_reponse_when_a_girl_asks_how_many/ |
Majestic-Pickle2136 | 2024-08-06 23:06:19 | 1,722,985,579 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1elw4is | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1elw4is/is_it_difficult_to_emotionally_connect_with/ | 0 | Hi guys, Situation: I started talking through Bumble with a Chinese girl (the kind that seems to have an international mindset). We both live in Europe and she has been here for 4 years now. In general, everything is going well, we have already met once, we think alike in many things and there is a certain chemistry. P... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it difficult to emotionally connect with chinese girls? | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1elw4is/is_it_difficult_to_emotionally_connect_with/ |
aravinth98 | 2023-09-03 09:40:48 | 1,693,734,048 | 0 | null | 0 | 168spix | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/168spix/new_research_says_that_gender_imbalance_in_dating/ | 1 | https://www.businessofapps.com/data/tinder-statistics/::text=Tinder%20has%20a%20gender%20imbalance,is%20closer%20to%2050%2F50. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | New research says, that gender imbalance in dating apps in EU is closer to 50:50. Do you think it's true? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/168spix/new_research_says_that_gender_imbalance_in_dating/ |
Lit_Romney | 2018-10-03 09:19:43 | 1,538,558,383 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9kzk22 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9kzk22/how_do_i_21m_get_out_there/ | 1 | I am looking for advice on how to get back into dating when I haven't been at it for a while. I haven't been around the dating scene much. The longest relationship that I have been in was about a month and a half but that was back in 11th grade. I had dated several girls here and there but never made any connection. My... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I [21M] get out there? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9kzk22/how_do_i_21m_get_out_there/ |
greasepunk1979 | 2021-11-28 22:29:49 | 1,638,138,589 | null | null | 0 | r4g87u | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/r4g87u/isnt_it_funny_how_i_only_get_likes_on_bumble_when/ | 9 | I'm not what one would call classically handsome so I don't get flooded with likes but I had one a few weeks ago and I caved to the marketing pressure of it'll disappear if there's no action in 7 days (or whatever). So I paid for a week, looked at the profile of the woman well beyond my parameters and swiped left. So I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Isn't it funny how I only get likes on bumble when I'm not paying? A rant in one act. | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/r4g87u/isnt_it_funny_how_i_only_get_likes_on_bumble_when/ |
Beautiful-Love7364 | 2023-09-28 08:13:12 | 1,695,888,792 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16ua3q2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16ua3q2/i_dont_know_what_to_think_about_all_this/ | 1 | I was born in February 2004 and the guy I've been dating since June was born in September 2000 (meaning that we matched when he was 22 and I was 19). I honestly have felt amazing so far but now that he recently turned 23 and one of my friends asked me if I was comfortable dating someone his age, I’ve been thinking if i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don’t know what to think about all this | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16ua3q2/i_dont_know_what_to_think_about_all_this/ |
TheMasterofDoom | 2023-10-15 18:10:13 | 1,697,393,413 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 178l8j6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/178l8j6/men_who_are_succesfull_at_the_dating_apps_how_do/ | 1 | Men who are succesfull at the dating apps, how do I best describe myself and how much should I fill out? I got the pictures bit down, but I always get kinda stuck on the best way to describe myself and who I am looking for. I also am unsure about how much of such profiles I should fill out, e.g. Qeustions, preferences,... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men who are succesfull at the dating apps, how do I get more succesfull myself? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/178l8j6/men_who_are_succesfull_at_the_dating_apps_how_do/ |
quickthrowaway108 | 2022-12-21 07:33:57 | 1,671,608,037 | null | ['dating app', 'feeld'] | 0 | zrdo8n | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zrdo8n/how_to_ask_a_guy_how_tall_he_is/ | 0 | I (27F) have been using a dating app called Feeld. Many people don’t list their height on it. Tall people tend to, and sometimes you can get a rough sense of someone’s height from their photos, but sometimes not. I know this can be a bit of a sensitive topic on this sub. But I’m just not attracted to guys who are my he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to ask a guy how tall he is? | null | 0.1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zrdo8n/how_to_ask_a_guy_how_tall_he_is/ |
ForwhatitsWIRTH | 2021-11-19 21:56:00 | 1,637,358,960 | null | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | qxqk5u | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qxqk5u/trying_to_figure_out_how_i_can_meet_more_women_my/ | 2 | It’s been a couple years since my last girlfriend. We broke up because I thought we were heading in different directions. Long story short, a pandemic, and an extensive job hunt later I’m finally feeling like getting back out there. Problem is I don’t know where to look. I don’t want to meet someone at a bar. I’ve trie... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying to figure out how I can meet more women my age and not at bars. I, 29(M) have had success finding girlfriends in the past but recently it seems like they are all taken or getting married. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qxqk5u/trying_to_figure_out_how_i_can_meet_more_women_my/ |
Sweet_Investigator63 | 2024-01-15 03:06:14 | 1,705,287,974 | 0 | null | 0 | 196yae5 | true | null | 96 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/196yae5/guy_knows_my_apartment_address_and_asked_for_his/ | 30 | I made a stupid decision and let this guy pick me up for a first date ( i normally drive, but that night there was lots of snow and i was having car issues). we had already facetimed and he seemed really nice and i stupidly decided to give him my apt address (90% of the time I turn down offers to be picked up, but i ha... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | guy knows my apartment address and asked for his money back after I told him I didn’t feel a connection | 30 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/196yae5/guy_knows_my_apartment_address_and_asked_for_his/ |
--kendrick-- | 2022-09-01 19:27:47 | 1,662,060,467 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | x3g8u7 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x3g8u7/what_does_going_for_a_drive_together_actually/ | 0 | I (19f) am talking to a (19m) guy who seems to be into cars and specifically said he likes going for drives. i hear people say all the time on dating apps that they’re up for going on drives together but what does that actually entail? i feel like it would just be really awkward sitting in a car especially when convers... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | what does ‘going for a drive’ together actually entail? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x3g8u7/what_does_going_for_a_drive_together_actually/ |
Ill_Raisin_5694 | 2024-03-07 16:32:43 | 1,709,829,163 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b8yxu6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b8yxu6/is_it_weird_when_someone_ask_you_for_your/ | 1 | Hello. I’m just curious. It’s a dating app so you can see my pics and videos and kinda just guess what my nationality is which is what I tell guys to do all the time but then some men are very persistent on NOT guessing and they just want me to tell them. I know part of dating is asking questions and getting to know pe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it weird when someone ask you for your nationality on a dating app? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8yxu6/is_it_weird_when_someone_ask_you_for_your/ |
spoiledcandy | 2023-07-28 11:10:18 | 1,690,542,618 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 15bufkn | false | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15bufkn/i_was_abused_raped_then_ghosted_by_somone_i/ | 1 | So it's a bit I'd an complex siatiatuon pla dong judge I just need support on how to get over him. So I was seeing somone else for about a month or so and alot happened he was abit absuive you could say? Well my family seems to think so and they think technically he assaulted me? As I told him I disnt want to have sex ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I was abused raped then ghosted by somone I love...how do I move on | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15bufkn/i_was_abused_raped_then_ghosted_by_somone_i/ |
icounternonsense | 2022-07-06 00:47:25 | 1,657,068,445 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | vsd11s | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vsd11s/am_i_doing_the_right_thing_what_could_this_mean/ | 1 | So, a bit of background to explain what's going on. I (33/m) met a girl (29/f) through OLD about a couple weeks ago. Since then, we've seen each other fairly often, maybe every three days or so. She's a fairly shy and quiet girl, but seems to enjoy my company a lot. We talk a ton in person and over text, but I give her... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I doing the right thing? What could this mean? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vsd11s/am_i_doing_the_right_thing_what_could_this_mean/ |
throwaway_8748 | 2021-01-25 03:14:28 | 1,611,544,468 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | l4enrv | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l4enrv/good_questions_to_ask_your_date/ | 2 | [28M] Currently talking to a girl [26F] who I met on a dating app. We talk everyday via text and will have a 3 hr phone call once a week. It’s great and we get along very well. However she’s MUCH more outgoing and socially energetic than me. So she pointed out that sometimes on the phone she’ll let there be silence so ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Good questions to ask your date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l4enrv/good_questions_to_ask_your_date/ |
Commercial-Calendar2 | 2021-09-20 10:29:46 | 1,632,133,786 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | prs2fr | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 78 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/prs2fr/milfing_through_tinder_to_loose_virginity/ | 27 | Milfing is a practice where young guys pick up older women for sex. I am a college student and a virgin. My friend suggested i use Tinder for Milfing. Is it unethical and an asshole move for me to find middle age women (some of whom are single moms) for sex ? Im not talking about fooling women into sex. I am talking ab... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Milfing through Tinder to loose Virginity ? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/prs2fr/milfing_through_tinder_to_loose_virginity/ |
ThicAndSporty | 2020-12-10 06:59:11 | 1,607,583,551 | null | null | 0 | kaanq7 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/kaanq7/the_strangest_date/ | 0 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The Strangest Date | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/kaanq7/the_strangest_date/ |
caro0o | 2018-12-07 06:28:54 | 1,544,164,134 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a3xalh | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a3xalh/tinder_hookup/ | 2 | If a guy on tinder asks me to come to his apartment on the first date, does he just want to hook up? I outright asked him what his intentions were, and he said “Lol I mean it’s spontaneous and having company is never a bad thing lol I thought it would be fun to get to know each other and watch a movie lol” Besides this... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder hookup? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a3xalh/tinder_hookup/ |
utente007 | 2020-01-12 20:12:29 | 1,578,859,949 | null | ['dating apps', 'okcupid'] | 0 | enso0d | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/enso0d/never_dated_anyone/ | 5 | So, I’m 30M, never dated. Can I have some tips? I don’t know what to say. I’m not the classic guy that girls or women want to date here where I’m from. When I was a boy they liked to go dancing, drink alcohol, they care for the look, expensive clothes, famous brands, they talked in the Dialect. I was spending time at h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Never dated anyone | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/enso0d/never_dated_anyone/ |
[deleted] | 2012-12-15 18:13:49 | 1,355,595,229 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14wi1c | null | null | 26 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/14wi1c/compliments_about_appearance_alternative_title/ | 19 | Hey Menions! I've been meeting a number of men recently-- I just moved to a new city and have been actively going out and trying to meet new people as well as meeting them through online dating-- and have spent some one-on-one time with a few of them. The hangouts fall somewhere in the grey area between making new frie... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Compliments about appearance (Alternative title: are these guys just trying to be charitable?) | 19 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/14wi1c/compliments_about_appearance_alternative_title/ |
OhYouKnow1111 | 2023-04-17 02:49:08 | 1,681,699,748 | 0 | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 12oz57e | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12oz57e/how_should_i_25m_think_about_dating_and_standards/ | 0 | I'm a 25 year old guy currently living in a major city on the West Coast, and have been having a lot of issues lately with attracting women. By many standards, I'm a relatively successful person. Well-educated, well-traveled, make $300k+, volunteer, etc. In saying that, I have no issue with admitting that I'm not conve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I [25M] think about dating and 'standards' as someone who is successful but not conventionally attractive? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12oz57e/how_should_i_25m_think_about_dating_and_standards/ |
[deleted] | 2021-08-15 20:15:22 | 1,629,058,522 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | p50v0r | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/p50v0r/hooking_up_on_dating_apps_feeling_regret_im_a_35/ | 0 | Going through a break up so I decided to try tinder and get the full on experience. Matching, messaging, then agreeing to meet up for the sole purpose of hooking up. So I did that just last night. 1. Guy (39M) looked cuter in pictures and online video chat. I was disappointed with how short he was and really how he was... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Hooking up on dating apps. Feeling regret (I’m a 35 female) | null | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/p50v0r/hooking_up_on_dating_apps_feeling_regret_im_a_35/ |
ModdedMaul | 2021-10-16 20:21:13 | 1,634,415,673 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | q9js4l | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q9js4l/how_to_get_a_real_relationship_with_a_girl_and/ | 1 | I (21m) just want a serious real relationship where we cuddle and go on cute dates. I've been on dozens on online dates that never go anywhere and the most I'll end up getting is a mediocre one night stand with a girl I'll never talk to again. I've kissed 7 different girls but never got passed a 4th date, and while tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get a real relationship with a girl and not just a ONS? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q9js4l/how_to_get_a_real_relationship_with_a_girl_and/ |
Flaky_Acanthisitta_5 | 2024-03-18 02:00:04 | 1,710,727,204 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bhff6v | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bhff6v/advice/ | 1 | I went out a guy a few days ago. We go to the same college. We met on a dating app. He had the idea for us to go to a bookstore since I told him I liked to read. It was a pretty causal chill date. We mostly sat and talked about interests and then looked at some books. He mentioned to me that he appreciated that I asked... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bhff6v/advice/ |
Life_Care_2373 | 2023-05-27 19:51:52 | 1,685,217,112 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating app'] | 0 | 13tghyk | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13tghyk/i_18f_want_to_swipe_right_on_my_best_friends_18f/ | 1 | Hello everyone, I'm not used to post on here but I'm really lost rn. So a bit of back story + sorry for my English. A while ago, i downloaded a dating app and got some dates. This lead to a big portion of my friends to also download the app, including one of closest friend : V. There she met her ex : S. I disliked S fr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (18F) want to swipe right on my best friend's (18F) ex | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13tghyk/i_18f_want_to_swipe_right_on_my_best_friends_18f/ |
Wuttelut | 2017-12-06 06:59:46 | 1,512,543,586 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7hwe1c | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7hwe1c/went_on_a_date_with_a_girl_it_went_well_now_we/ | 1 | Okay, so a little bit of background first. Me, I'm a 24 year old guy, she's a 22 year old girl, has one daughter who's 2 years old. I've known the girl for probably 5 or 6 weeks. We met on Tinder, and I've made previous posts about her, before we met, if you want to check them out. Both of our accounts on Tinder were m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Went on a date with a girl, it went well. Now we barely talk. Help? (Long) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7hwe1c/went_on_a_date_with_a_girl_it_went_well_now_we/ |
melodramasupercut | 2018-09-16 18:02:53 | 1,537,120,973 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 9gcnfh | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9gcnfh/how_to_handle_dating_app_situation_with_guy_23m/ | 3 | Forewarning that this post might make me sound slightly creepy, but I am a paranoid and non-confrontational person so it’s not too out of character. Earlier today I was hanging out with the guy I’m seeing and at one point I could see in the reflection of his glasses that he had opened up Bumble and swiped through for a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to handle dating app situation with guy (23m) I’m seeing (20f) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9gcnfh/how_to_handle_dating_app_situation_with_guy_23m/ |
[deleted] | 2015-05-03 19:31:34 | 1,430,681,494 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 34qu45 | null | null | 129 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/34qu45/whats_wrong_with_online_dating/ | 20 | ...aside from what my username implies, obviously. | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What's wrong with online dating? | 20 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/34qu45/whats_wrong_with_online_dating/ |
explorer1960 | 2023-12-15 15:41:11 | 1,702,654,871 | 0 | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | 18j2xb8 | false | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/18j2xb8/old_and_meeting_organically_arent_actually/ | 37 | Her: Well, funny meeting you on Bumble Me: I know you? Her: We were on the group bike ride. I was wearing ____ Me: Oh yes, of course We had chatted briefly, there were several people I was talking to - friends, friends of friends, and one lady I did exchange numbers with (not bumble lady) so never really talked much to... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | OLD and "meeting organically" aren't actually separate. | 37 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/18j2xb8/old_and_meeting_organically_arent_actually/ |
OzentheUnfazed | 2019-12-09 01:59:54 | 1,575,856,794 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | e837p3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e837p3/my_tinder_experience_a_desperate_cry_for_help19f/ | 2 | Started seriously swiping on tinder 3 months ago, I honestly can’t believe how long it’s been makes me sad that I’m still unable to find someone to be with, and I have accumulated 100 or so matches. In the early stages, I would get messaged pretty frequently by the guys who I matched with but inevitably I’d be ghosted ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My Tinder Experience: a desperate cry for help(19F) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e837p3/my_tinder_experience_a_desperate_cry_for_help19f/ |
Effective-Bar9092 | 2024-08-14 09:31:25 | 1,723,627,885 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1erx94m | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1erx94m/exclusive_but_he_updated_his_hinge_profile/ | 1 | Me and a guy are explicitly exclusive. Before we were exclusive but after we had met, I noticed that he changed the order of his images on his Hinge profile, but I was definitely alright with it since we didn't explicitly establish exclusivity at that point. We have since explicitly agreed that we are exclusively seein... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Exclusive but he updated his Hinge profile | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1erx94m/exclusive_but_he_updated_his_hinge_profile/ |
andorinha_nostalgica | 2024-08-23 14:58:35 | 1,724,425,115 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ezewbl | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ezewbl/a_bit_confused/ | 1 | If there are any. To sum it up, I F(28) met a guy M(26) on a dating app. Initially we met at the same distance from one another for a cup of coffee. Afterwards he came up to my city for a couple of drinks and we ended up sleeping togheter. Then I went to his city. By the time I left he told me "hit me up when you want ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A bit confused | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ezewbl/a_bit_confused/ |
pearlofwine | 2023-04-07 18:15:32 | 1,680,891,332 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 12eu5k1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12eu5k1/how_should_i_approach_old_contact/ | 1 | I met a girl a year ago and we exchanged snapchats, we talked a bit with voice notes and she seemed cool we had a nice vibe, I matched with her on tinder not long after and sent an arguably cringy opener. Not sure if that matters but we stopped talking. I've been having a dry spell and wondered if it's worth shooting m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How should I approach old contact? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12eu5k1/how_should_i_approach_old_contact/ |
Werewolf1810 | 2023-12-07 03:24:31 | 1,701,919,471 | 0 | null | 0 | 18cm8u2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18cm8u2/how_has_no_one_implemented_this_yet_on_a_dating/ | 1 | We all see the same rants about "guys just swipe on everyone" "he or she matched me and then never messaged/replied" "I (woman) have no time, too many matches/it's overwhelming/etc", it's all a feedback loop. We're all sinking further and further down; it's a race to the bottom to see who can show the least amount of e... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How has no one implemented this yet on a dating app? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18cm8u2/how_has_no_one_implemented_this_yet_on_a_dating/ |
LoveScoutCEO | 2024-01-14 18:49:23 | 1,705,258,163 | 0 | null | 0 | 196mzh4 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/196mzh4/want_to_improve_your_chances_of_success_on_a/ | 1 | I have always wanted to write that headline. Well, the article claims that leaving a voice message blows up your chance of success. As some of you probably know I am know fan of dating apps, because I spent over a decade in the industry. But this is the sort of thing that should help because it personalizes you. That i... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Want to improve your chances of success on a dating app by 48%? This article claims there is one little trick! | 1 | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/196mzh4/want_to_improve_your_chances_of_success_on_a/ |
Boring-Outcome822 | 2022-10-05 17:43:02 | 1,664,991,782 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | xwh5rs | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xwh5rs/is_there_something_wrong_with_my_message/ | 1 | I matched with a woman (let's call her Monica) on Bumble, and she just sent a "Hey :)". I looked through her profile, there wasn't much on her bio but she did list painting and creativity as interests. She had a few travel pictures and a picture of her holding some paintings. So I responded with "Hi Monica :) Those are... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there something wrong with my message? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xwh5rs/is_there_something_wrong_with_my_message/ |
[deleted] | 2015-03-16 04:02:59 | 1,426,478,579 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2z75sj | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2z75sj/not_sure_how_to_approach_the_subject_of_seeing/ | 1 | I have been on 4 dates (1 overnight) with a former coworker since the middle of feb. Last night he was telling a story that included a girl he was seeing in January and he goes "oh I'm not seeing her anymore by the way". When we left eachother this morning he goes "talk to you soon" Anyway I think things have been goin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure how to approach the subject of seeing anyone else | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2z75sj/not_sure_how_to_approach_the_subject_of_seeing/ |
rainydaywoman11 | 2019-12-29 12:39:00 | 1,577,623,140 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | eh5hyy | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eh5hyy/what_is_dating_like_for_people_in_their_late_30s/ | 10 | I recently got out of a 10+ year relationship and I feel like it will be very hard to find single men in the same age range as me. Everyone seems to already be married. Dating apps seem like they’re more for younger people. Am I wrong in saying that? Any insight or advice? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is dating like for people in their late 30’s? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eh5hyy/what_is_dating_like_for_people_in_their_late_30s/ |
throwaway32932428 | 2023-02-07 13:25:50 | 1,675,776,350 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10w1rjy | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10w1rjy/im_infatuated_and_dont_know_what_to_do_next_about/ | 1 | I've met this girl on tinder and we talked for a week, we clicked, I liked her and she liked me.. that's at least what she said to me.. She invited me to visit her to her place and it was amazing. I was there 3 days and I loved every single moment of it, I tried to hold myself away from falling for her since I thought ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm infatuated and dont know what to do next about her | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10w1rjy/im_infatuated_and_dont_know_what_to_do_next_about/ |
Huntersmamaaa | 2019-06-30 03:30:13 | 1,561,865,413 | null | ['matched', 'swiping', 'bumble'] | 0 | c78i9q | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c78i9q/unsure_about_this_guyi_feel_hes_an_ass/ | 0 | Okay so here's the story I currently live 2 hours away from home just graduated in May. I'm moving back home and matched with a dude at school on bumble...turns out dude was in town for a baseball game. And actually lives like 20 mins away from me back home. So he's been coming up here just to see me. I move back end o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Unsure about this guy....I feel he's an ass | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c78i9q/unsure_about_this_guyi_feel_hes_an_ass/ |
Embarrassed_Shame784 | 2023-08-28 08:05:23 | 1,693,209,923 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 163fytq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/163fytq/how_to_approach_girls_im_hitting_31yr_this_year/ | 1 | I'm still single and never been into any relationship also this Online dating apps are not working for me I'm praying to lord everyday to get me a good life partner but God isn't answering me right now I tried tinder, bumblebee..etc... Even tried to search over any dating events, social events, volunteering programs, m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to approach girls? I'm hitting 31yr this year! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/163fytq/how_to_approach_girls_im_hitting_31yr_this_year/ |
trent_97 | 2021-11-07 01:14:17 | 1,636,247,657 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | qodx7b | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qodx7b/matches_to_date_ratio/ | 1 | What’s your average match to date ratio? I’m well over 300 matches with 0 dates. I’m about to give up on online dating but in this world it’s almost the only chance to find someone. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Matches to date ratio | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qodx7b/matches_to_date_ratio/ |
bubbleteaherbaljelly | 2021-01-09 14:20:00 | 1,610,202,000 | null | null | 0 | ktrpii | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ktrpii/what_is_wrong_with_people/ | 8 | 1. I’m on Bumble and I matched with a guy since Christmas who seems cute. I hit him up and we exchanged pretty good messages. I mean he did really replied and the conversation went so well sharing opinions about many things as well as hobbies. We agreed to meet in person but I went for a trip on New Year so we moved it... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What is wrong with people? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ktrpii/what_is_wrong_with_people/ |
dwydner | 2020-10-05 22:51:34 | 1,601,938,294 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | j5trmc | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j5trmc/persistence_can_manifest_the_impossible_or_can_it/ | 1 | Hello All, I'd like to know your thoughts on persistence, because an unusual thing happened in my life that has piqued my interest. So, I don't believe in holding out hope for someone who doesn't like you. I feel like it's a waste of time, and in most cases, just creepy. So when my friend told me that he was going to k... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Persistence can Manifest the Impossible! - Or, Can It? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j5trmc/persistence_can_manifest_the_impossible_or_can_it/ |
textornahthrowaway | 2017-01-27 22:55:45 | 1,485,557,745 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5qkbt8 | null | null | 44 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5qkbt8/tell_me_about_your_tinder_experience/ | 6 | 23/M I've had a couple short relationships and one long relationship. I haven't dated at all in the last year and half (since the long one), and I've been focusing on myself. Now I want to start dating again. I've never used Tinder, but I feel like it's a decent way to meet new women and go on casual dates. Is this cor... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tell me about your Tinder experience | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5qkbt8/tell_me_about_your_tinder_experience/ |
offmychestbumble | 2018-12-16 01:17:56 | 1,544,923,076 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | a6kvi2 | true | Venting | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a6kvi2/how_i_was_used_on_a_bumble_date/ | 26 | I'm mostly dumbfounded a person would even act this way. I met a girl on Bumble a few weeks ago and I stupidly asked her out. On our first date everything was going great (I thought). But there was a topic that came up that I thought nothing of but will make sense later. She mentions to me that she had an interview at ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How I was used on a Bumble date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a6kvi2/how_i_was_used_on_a_bumble_date/ |
TheBrinkofOverthink | 2024-01-13 07:35:34 | 1,705,131,334 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 195in3z | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/195in3z/feeling_a_little_overwhelmed/ | 2 | Hi all, I’m just hoping to get a little bit of a morale boost or advice. I, 23 F, have been on multiple dating apps and have been putting myself out there (in the real world too) to find a boyfriend and eventual husband. I just feel like there aren’t many guys out there who are looking for a life partner or guys that m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling a little overwhelmed. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/195in3z/feeling_a_little_overwhelmed/ |
cawcaw89 | 2023-02-26 22:34:34 | 1,677,450,874 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 11cuyro | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11cuyro/meeting_people_online_vs_in_person/ | 2 | Here’s the situation: I’m a straight dude with good luck with online dating (tinder,hinge hookups/meetups that went well) but no luck even talking to anyone at the bar/club. Just wanted to see what people’s experience has been. From the dudes I have talked to many seem to have the opposite issue. Thanks! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting people online vs in person | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11cuyro/meeting_people_online_vs_in_person/ |
vicncak | 2017-06-03 15:37:54 | 1,496,504,274 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6f1sm3 | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6f1sm3/why_do_girls_hate_me_so_much/ | 1 | I have had girls openly comment about my monotone voice, i have had girls openly call me ugly, i have even had girls laugh at me just for saying "hi" to them. All this has done is erode my self esteem away and reinforce the feeling that i will be alone and single for life. Every time i even look at a girl, they just gi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do girls hate me so much? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6f1sm3/why_do_girls_hate_me_so_much/ |
DesperateCounter5413 | 2024-07-31 18:17:35 | 1,722,449,855 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1egu9en | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1egu9en/i_m28_met_her_f30_online_after_5_months_i_was/ | 2 | Keywords: Online dating, mental abuse, narcissism, mental illness, personality disorder, ghosting If that‘s not the right subreddit, please help me to find the right one. English is not my first language. It will be a long story, I'm thankfull for everyone who reads till the end. I'm desperate for advise and helpfull t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (m28) met her (f30) online. After 5 months I was suddenly ghostet out of nowhere while on a phonecall. | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1egu9en/i_m28_met_her_f30_online_after_5_months_i_was/ |
wayNotPop | 2024-06-19 01:02:33 | 1,718,758,953 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1dj6pb6 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dj6pb6/how_to_lose_rejection_sensitivity_will_i_get/ | 1 | Took me (26M) a lot of courage to finally start trying to find a girlfriend. It didn't happened to me naturally through friend's friends, in school or group activities so I installed some apps. Thought I was going to get zero matches. Every man talks like it's the worse thing in the world for average men. But I've gave... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to lose rejection sensitivity? Will I get thicker skin over time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dj6pb6/how_to_lose_rejection_sensitivity_will_i_get/ |
noideawbu | 2021-02-06 13:19:43 | 1,612,617,583 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ldxirw | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ldxirw/how_to_deal_with_rejections/ | 1 | I would say I am metally strong person but the last three years have taken quite a toll on me. I am 27 year old brown guy. Three years ago, I moved out of my country and started working on a high paying job. I am not physically attractive as per social standards. Every now and then, I find people giving me weird looks ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to deal with rejections? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ldxirw/how_to_deal_with_rejections/ |
ItsAThrowaway05 | 2021-05-29 08:13:15 | 1,622,275,995 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nniqgk | true | Venting | 28 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nniqgk/today_i_realized_how_lonely_i_am_right_before_a/ | 47 | I don't really expect anyone to read this. I just use these forums to blast my thoughts and feelings into the anonymous void, and somehow it helps me. She here it is. All I want is someone to date. I want to meet someone and fall in love slowly as we get to know each other and just enjoy our lives together. I haven't h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Today I realized how lonely I am right before a hookup | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nniqgk/today_i_realized_how_lonely_i_am_right_before_a/ |
natericamalea777 | 2015-11-07 05:22:48 | 1,446,873,768 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 3ruwpm | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3ruwpm/dating_app/ | 0 | LOV is a revolutionary new dating app for finding dates nearby that lead to Honest relationships. Using your social activity, we are able to match people based on who they truly are. People who meet have better first dates and find long-term relationships sooner. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating App | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3ruwpm/dating_app/ |
[deleted] | 2019-09-18 19:46:46 | 1,568,836,006 | null | null | 0 | d633b9 | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/d633b9/dont_give_up_hope/ | 16 | I finally found someone. We dated in previous and decided to give it a go again. We are beyond happy. Best of luck to you all! | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Don’t give up hope! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/d633b9/dont_give_up_hope/ |
brashet | 2012-09-24 02:06:47 | 1,348,452,407 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 10de6m | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/10de6m/asking_for_a_another_chance/ | 2 | So some background on me: 28m who has not dated in a long time. I have had only one "serious" girlfriend a few years back and I don't have much of a social circle to meet new people because of a short bout of depression I went through in the past that really destroyed my social life. Few weeks ago I decided to give onl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asking for a another chance? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10de6m/asking_for_a_another_chance/ |
SovietGeronimo | 2021-11-06 04:38:18 | 1,636,173,498 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | qnsx0g | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qnsx0g/trying_speeddating_again_need_help/ | 1 | Hello i am 26 years old Man and i will participate in an online speeddating event next week. I look for advice of any kind because my first speeddating experience felt like it went well but I didn't got any matches. So I would love to know what are question I should ask and how can I prevent a situation where I am the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying Speeddating again need help. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qnsx0g/trying_speeddating_again_need_help/ |
floridagirl739 | 2020-10-09 06:04:36 | 1,602,223,476 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | j7tqa2 | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j7tqa2/dating_for_active_duty_military_female/ | 2 | Hi all, The title basically says it all. I am 34, active duty female, who is recently divorced after 12 year relationship (8 years of that was marriage). That basically means i spent most of my 20s and early 30s in a relationship. Now with COVID its pretty much impossible to meet people in real life, so I have turned t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating for Active Duty Military female? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j7tqa2/dating_for_active_duty_military_female/ |
bradycorey47 | 2018-12-25 19:10:17 | 1,545,765,017 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | a9hed2 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a9hed2/reconnected_with_a_girl_25f_who_rejected_me_25f_6/ | 2 | So basically, asked a girl out who I really liked, got rejected. She didn't initiate anything afterwards and I didn't either. Then a week ago she messaged me out of the blue 6 months later asking how I've been. We chatted a bit and I asked her out to lunch to catch up. It went really well, basically she apologized for ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Reconnected with a girl (25F) who rejected me (25F) 6 months ago | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a9hed2/reconnected_with_a_girl_25f_who_rejected_me_25f_6/ |
M_Aurelius1 | 2024-08-05 17:40:34 | 1,722,879,634 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eku08v | true | Question | 149 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1eku08v/i_recently_started_looking_at_the_dating_apps/ | 0 | Recently got out of a 7 month unhealthy situationship/relationship. Working on myself for now and not planning on dating again anytime soon but was just curious to see what’s out there. Anyone else notice a lack of attractive women or men on the apps right now? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I recently started looking at the dating apps again and it seems like there are very few women that I am even remotely attracted to right now. | 0 | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1eku08v/i_recently_started_looking_at_the_dating_apps/ |
Rhyav | 2019-07-20 21:30:11 | 1,563,658,211 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cfr5lx | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/cfr5lx/what_do_you_expect_or_look_for_in_a/ | 19 | From two different sources: someone that started off as a real-life friend, and someone you meet from Tinder that says is looking for friends-with-benefits. What do you expect from each? Where do YOU draw the line that differentiates friendship from a relationship? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you expect or look for in a friends-with-benefits relationship? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/cfr5lx/what_do_you_expect_or_look_for_in_a/ |
holarymade | 2019-02-07 19:42:56 | 1,549,568,576 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ao7n7i | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ao7n7i/what_to_think_about_that_answer_from_girl/ | 1 | Maybe wrong subreddit, but question for women. Went to tinder date with this 26 year old girl and 1 week later another date. After both date she said that she had great time and was happy that i asked her out. Few days after second date i noticed that her response time to my texts got longer and i felt like she didn't ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to think about that answer from girl | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ao7n7i/what_to_think_about_that_answer_from_girl/ |
uknonuthingjonsnuuu | 2015-10-30 20:59:53 | 1,446,238,793 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3qw0j5 | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3qw0j5/i_know_literally_nothing_about_dating/ | 26 | I'm a 22 year old recent college grad who has no idea how to even start dating. I've only been on one sort of date in my life, and even that was just a quick arrangement from Tinder that I feel I kind of bombed since I didn't get a second one. I don't know how to approach women, I don't know how to talk to them, I don'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I know literally nothing about dating. | 26 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3qw0j5/i_know_literally_nothing_about_dating/ |
MFRobots | 2020-06-05 12:13:54 | 1,591,359,234 | null | null | 0 | gx3f3d | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gx3f3d/made_fun_of_the_maga_hat_wearers_in_the_areaand/ | 0 | There had been this woman in my area that pointed out specifically where she lived (not the address) and I realized that's major horse country. She had "other ethnicity" as your race. Pretty attractive, she seemed educated I suppose. Anyways, I opened with how I've noticed she's been on the site for a while and I bet l... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Made fun of the MAGA hat wearers in the area...and well... | null | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gx3f3d/made_fun_of_the_maga_hat_wearers_in_the_areaand/ |
sk_98 | 2019-08-11 07:31:13 | 1,565,508,673 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | coty7s | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/coty7s/is_it_stupid_to_use_tinder_if_im_not_looking_for/ | 0 | For context, my definition of a hook-up is meeting someone and having sex with them the first time you see them - this is something I'm not comfortable with. I'm asking this because a lot of times guys ask me "So what are you looking for on this application?" and as much as I hate that question I usually responded "Not... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Is it stupid to use Tinder if I'm not looking for a hook-up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/coty7s/is_it_stupid_to_use_tinder_if_im_not_looking_for/ |
mrsjackwhite | 2022-06-28 04:17:43 | 1,656,389,863 | null | ['OLD', 'dating site'] | 0 | vme7rq | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/vme7rq/dating_site_that_hides_your_profile/ | 9 | My hairdresser told me that she found her BF on an OLD site that charged a bit extra to hide her profile from everyone except for the men that she "liked". This was several years ago, and she couldn't remember the name of the site. I like this idea, does anyone know which site this is? If I try OLD again, I'll probably... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | dating site that hides your profile? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/vme7rq/dating_site_that_hides_your_profile/ |
myburnerforthissub | 2019-11-01 00:26:30 | 1,572,567,990 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | dpwpa7 | true | Vent/Rant | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dpwpa7/halloween_plans_ruined_for_3rd_date_now_i_need_to/ | 1 | Was going out with this woman tonight for the third time (met on okcupid). I really like her. So far we've had a good connection. Taking it slow. We were going to a Halloween costume party at a bar tonight and two days ago I got a cold. I was hoping it would go away or I'd just power through it but by this afternoon I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Halloween plans ruined for 3rd date, now I need to vent. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dpwpa7/halloween_plans_ruined_for_3rd_date_now_i_need_to/ |
cscx | 2020-01-07 10:20:02 | 1,578,392,402 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | el9ri9 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/el9ri9/is_there_some_kind_of_absolute_beginners_guide/ | 23 | I'm almost 27 (m), never dated or even asked a girl out. I've been told all my life that girls hate being approached, asked for numbers, etc., and dating apps have been a total busy for me. Wtf am I supposed to do? Do I just find random women I find attractive and say, "hi, I'd like to get to know you better, can I get... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there some kind of absolute beginners guide for adults? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/el9ri9/is_there_some_kind_of_absolute_beginners_guide/ |
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The Reddit Online Dating Dataset ( RODD)
The Reddit Online Dating Dataset (RODD) is a collection of 219000 English text-based Reddit submissions related to online dating.
Dataset Details
Dataset Description
RODD was created to study gender and age-based differences in experiences of online dating fatigue and online dating etiquette as part of my master's thesis @TUM:
"Online Dating Etiquette: An NLP-based Approach to Online Dating Discourses on Reddit"
We leveraged NLP-based methods to analyze the submissions both quantitatively and qualitatively, uncovering significant demographic differences in fatigue experiences.
The Reddit submissions in this dataset are related to online dating. Further, we show that a large number of submissions show signs of dating fatigue. Thus, the overall tone of the dataset is negative.
Online daters discuss topics related to online dating and share their negative experiences, give and receive advice, and seek support and orientation online. Many submission authors provide their opinion on existing behavioral rules in online dating.
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- Shared by [optional]: [More Information Needed]
- Language(s) (NLP): [More Information Needed]
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Dataset Sources [optional]
RODD was created as part of a study @TUM on online dating fatigue and online dating etiquette:
"Online Dating Etiquette: An NLP-based Approach to Online Dating Discourses on Reddit"
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Uses
The dataset can be used for several NLP tasks, incl. classification and sentiment analysis. We further provide the dataset for future research on online dating.
"link_flair_text" are human gold labels for semantic and sentiment categorization, provided by the submission authors on creation when the subreddit enforces the topical categorization of new submissions.
Sentiment analysis with SiEBERT shows that models are generally able to detect intricacies in text from our dataset.
Direct Use
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Out-of-Scope Use
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Dataset Structure
- Column - Description - Data type
- author - Account that created the submission. - str
- created - Time of creation. - datetime
- created_utc - UTC timestamp of creation time. - float
- downs - Number of downvotes. - float
- extraction_keywords - The keywords that led to the extraction of the submission. - array[str]
- gilded - Number of gildings. - float
- id - Unique submission identifier. Primary Key. - str
- is_crosspostable - If the submission is crosspostable to other subreddits. - bool
- link_flair_text - Category of the submission. (If categorization is supported.) - str
- num_comments - Number of comments. - int
- num_crossposts - Number of crossposts. - float
- permalink - Internal Reddit permalink. - str
- score - Difference of upvotes and downvotes. - int
- selftext - Text of the submission. - str
- subreddit - Subreddit name. - str
- subreddit_id - Subreddit identifier. - str
- title - Title of the submission - str
- ups - Number of upvotes. - float
- upvote_ratio - Upvotes / Downvotes - float
- url - URL of the submission. - str
Dataset Creation
Curation Rationale
In order to study online dating fatigue and etiquette related to online dating, this dataset was created by scraping Reddit submissions using keywords related to online dating. The keyword set was iteratively refined to ensure high precision in selecting relevant submissions while capturing a broad range of discussions within the online dating discourse. Subreddits were hand-selected for scraping based on two criteria: 1) high activity and member count, indicating general popularity. 2) As indicated in community guidelines, A second group of subreddits was selected based on self-reported specific demographic focus.
Language Variety
The submissions were extracted in late 2024 from English-speaking subreddits. While information about the varieties and dialects used is not available, it is most likely that all mainstream forms of English are included.
Speaker Demographic
Reddit encourages anonymity, making it impossible to characterize the demographics of this dataset's 140000 unique accounts. However, it is advised to consider the demographics of both general Reddit users and online dating app users when using this data. Based on observations, this dataset contains submissions written by both females and males, many gender identities, ethnicities, people of different socioeconomic backgrounds, and different age groups ranging from teenagers to individuals over 50. A great proportion of submissions is most likely from Western societies. Some of the included subreddits do not specify their intended member demographic, while others define themselves as communities for either female or male audiences or specific age groups.
Speech Situation
This dataset comprises written, sometimes edited submissions published before October 2024. During the creation of this dataset, all submissions of the selected subreddits were used for scraping, collecting submissions created between early 2010 and September 2024. Users submit to seek advice, initiate discussions, share experiences and opinions, and ask questions about online dating. Reddit facilitates a "roughly synchronous" interaction setting where users submit and respond within a threaded format, with response times varying from minutes to days.
Text Characteristics
Each submission includes a non-empty title and a non-empty text body (selftext). Overall text length varies with a mean and standard deviation of 1300 characters per submission. 1300 characters roughly translate to 200-260 words in English texts.
Provenance Appendix
This data was extracted from "Pushshift Dumps", a publicly available archive of Reddit data collected over time via the Pushshift API. The Pushshift API provides researchers and moderators access to historical Reddit data, including submissions and comments, mirroring the official Reddit data that is not publicly accessible.
Source Data
Data Collection and Processing
The submissions of RODD were extracted through a keyword-based filtering approach on all submissions in the following subreddits:
- r/dating_advice
- r/dating
- r/OnlineDating
- r/datingoverthirty
- r/datingoverforty
- r/datingoverfifty
- r/AskMen
- r/AskWomen
- r/TwoXChromosomes
We used the following keywords to match submission titles and selftext:
Bias, Risks, and Limitations
RODD comprises a large portion of negative Reddit submissions. Self-selection bias leads to a concentration of fatigued online daters from Western societies in \ac{RODD}. Thus, content related to online dating fatigue is more prevalent than in other discourses or demographics. This content is specific to the Reddit online dating discourse.
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